Giving

If you are suffering when somebody refuses you something it is perhaps because you have the tendency to refuse others what you should not refuse. If you want to stop suffering from this, try to give what you refuse to give. It is a way to solve this problem, and don't forget that what you give to others you give to yourself. So be clever, do the first step (of trying to give).

Taken from the book 'The Spider's Web, Vol I ', chapter 'Hope-The Foundation of Change', pg.94-by Chariji.